We have been domesticating dogs for centuries and as we’ve done this through the ages, there are many behavioural and emotional problems that have been created or passed down. One of the most common behavioral challenges you can find in a dog is whether he is too dependent or independent.

Many dogs that are too independent create problems and can prevent a close relationship with a family from developing. When you have a dog that would rather be by itself, it is difficult for him to adapt into a family where children want to be around him and pet him all the time.

You can work with your independent dog to try to help him become more attached to the family. In many cases, being social is a learned behaviou, just as independence can be. Take it slowly with him, and show him how fun being in a family environment can be. When he enjoys being petted and being around the children, praise him and give him a treat. Spend a lot of time with him, making sure you don’t overstep his boundaries. Ideally, you will eventually have a social dog that loves being with you and the family, but is still ok to be left alone every once in a while.

On the other hand, we have dogs that are extremely dependent. They will whine and beg for attention. These are the kind of dogs that are under your feet 24/7 and make it impossible for anything to get done. This kind of behaviour makes it difficult for someone who lives in an apartment and goes to work from 9 to 5. While you are away, your neighbors may be complaining about your dog howling and barking.

Another effect of being left alone is that your dog could become a home wrecker. He’ll chew everything in sight and ruin your old books, not to mention the left shoe from every pair in your closet. To prevent these kinds of things, leave a light on in the house, or get him a raw hide to chew on. Another effective way to stop the howling is to leave the radio or TV on during the day. Your dog will hear the voices and not feel so lonely. Also, considering getting another dog for companionship while you’re away. In many cases it’s better to have two dogs when you aren’t home for part of the day, as both dogs will be happier, healthier, and better behaved.